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Old 28-01-2020, 02:40 AM
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Re: Fetish/Role Play/BDSM in HC

To be fair, I feel that this thread isn't exactly fair to goddessxenia. No doubt she did sound harsh and have been spewing insults in this thread, we have to understand that this happen because her own personal info was leaked. In this work industry where this kind of job is considered a taboo to a typical Singaporean, having her info leaked will no doubt cause a lot of inconvenience and trouble to her own family. Just like how some of us in here doesn't want to let our own family knows about our own kinks/fetish, we should respect not just hers but all of the mistresses and give them the space they need.

Yes she could have handled this in a better way but every parent will care when their own children are being caught in this mess. So guys let's be understanding and stop making things difficult for her.

As for the complains about her rants outside of her sessions, I think that this isn't exactly the place to rant about it as many people here has been posting FRs here to support/oppose the mistresses from what they have experience in their session. To talk about someone professionalism outside her work isn't fair to her as she is also a human too and everyone have their own way of voicing their own problems. She might also have chosen to post in her blogs to interact with other subs who are more involved with her personal life. If you aren't into it, just ignore and continue with your life. It is after all not everyone's cup of tea to hear someone rant in social media.

Lastly about the "sex worker", I think that if someone doesn't like to be called that way, then so be it. Not everyone likes to be labelled in that way. Just like how we have different terms like ML,Dom, if they want to be called in a certain way then just let it be. It is also a form of respect after all and I believe that if you don't want to be called in a certain way, most mistresses will respect you.

I know I sound biased to goddessxenia but let's not undermine what she have done for the community for these years. It's not easy being a mistress after all and lers give her credits where credits are due and not criticize her for what she had rant outside her workplace.