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Originally Posted by SBFqualityctrl
Bros I’m new to this BDSM thing and I would love to try. But I think I may have the wrong expectation of a domme.
Am I right to say they all do not provide any form of sexual svc (hj bj fj)
Or do I have to find one with a sub and I can engage the sub sexually under the mistresses instructions?
Thanks for any advice.
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yes the right expectation of a domme will be that she be able to fulfil your fetish, any sexual svc is bonus and should not be expected, have good, dont have done, but most if not all allow JOI meaning you can jake off in front of her, do ask for permission first though or you might get punished for it lol...
ask permission to jake, then jake finish ask permission to release, else again you will have to bear the consequences of it...
actually if u're into sexy time, you're better off with FL/ML, but if you're into abit of fetish with sexual services, look for PRCs who offer BDSM services, sexy time is guaranteed for those, when u visit local dommes / mistresses, top priority is fetish, do not think abt sexy time as it's virtually non existence...
i've met some no body contact, no touching of dicks and no cum, so i walked out the same way as i walked in lol, i wonder what did i do inside the session, few hundred dollars fly away and i have to go toilet pcc myself...
below link is a comparison i wrote previously comparing prcs and locals, you can read already see which one working for yous...
https://samleong.shop/showpost.php?p=186...ostcount=12615
if u managed to find a domme with a sub (hopefully female, unless you into forced bi), again sexual is not confirmed, best to ask politely what you're looking for, communication is key, most of the time paiseh to ask or what ending screw up the session... dommes are not FL/ML so do not demand or think that they must do what you ask for, that is not true... most of the time they do what they like and IF they are happy with your performance, that's a big IF, they might do what you like, else instead of you serving them become they 'serving' you... then will become exchange of position, domme become sub, sub become domme, as the saying goes topping from the bottom...
especially you're new to this, best to state everything clearly in a email, dos and donts, limits etc, do state that you're a newbie, dommes will know how to handle a newbie and guide you along, usually give abit leeway and not be so harsh with you, other than the hardcore few, i think u should gain abit of experience first before meeting them...