kind of long rambling post. bros who cannot tahan reading too many words, please skip :P haha
came here to check if bro Kangtuo got any update. eh Bro, got or not?? if have please update.
bros out there who commented:
1) can lah, $200sgd really can feed family of 4-5 for 4weeks. even if the family is full of people who eat bloody 3 bowls of rice (per person) every meal, it is still enough for 3weeks.
I know, cuz i visit Vn many many times, North, South, Central.
2) sigh ... i know i cannot help everyone. i wish i can. but alas, i am in no financial position to do so.
3) yes, of course we dunno this whole thing true or not. But, even if i get conned, it is $200sgd. can con once, twice, cannot con forever.
but if its not a con story, $200sgd can really do a lot for Ah K family.
this was brought up before in this thread, and probably no need to go through again but maybe a refresher?
some of these girls can be naive. as much as the majority of bros who commented on it before, that its all 'show', 'wayang' etc ....
some of these girls do really hope to find some passion and compassion here. yes, most do not, and probably dare not hope for it. but some do.
but ok lah, all this been discussed before, let's leave it.
yes bros, i cannot help everyone. but who can?? no one can help everyone out there. that is just too bad.
but, i help what i can, however little or much i can.
by no means am i saying that bros here ought to help, like me. no way. to help or not, it is your own preference, your choice. there is no obligation to do so. it should never be.
actually, think about it ... even Divinity cannot help everyone and everything out there .... i am sure Buddha, God, Allah, Lord Krishna etc, even they cannot help everyone out there all the time.
that is why they need us humans

we humans can also help other humans
it is too bad i am in no position to help more. if i am able to, and assuming this whole thing is true, i wouldn't even mind every month contribute $100 - $150sgd to Ah K's family to help bring up the kid.
yes, it is not a lot of money, but if it helps even in a small measure, that is good enough for me. the kid should not be paying for the mistakes of other people, especially that fuckin dickhead who created this.
by no means am i saying helping means you are 'good person', and not helping makes people 'bad'. if only 'good and 'bad' can be so simple.
in anycase, i am already helping lots of Viets. no no no, lest bros here start to think i helping a number of 51 girls, no no no!
i help through Worldvision.
don't ask me why i have such affinity for Vn. i just feel for Vn, everything about it. its history, culture, people, food, etc etc etc.
so, bro Kangtuo, got updates or not??
i am serious about my offer. i don't joke about such things, not when a little life is concerned.