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Originally Posted by Johndick
One method i use, with reasonable success rate is this:
When the ML starts to reply message rather excessively, I will just go completely quiet. And cos I don't massage, it creates an awkward silence. ML will reasonable level of EQ will get the message that she has neglected the client and put the hp away. If they ask me why I suddenly so quiet, I will reply with sarcasm that she seems more interested in her hp than me. This could even work for those bros whom do chat with ML during the massage segment. Of course those ML whom are of poor customer services may ignore this method of mine, then again this kind probably don't deserve a RTM.
I prefer the indirect approach instead of outright reminding them to cut down on hp usage. It takes craft to phrase it in a manner that will not dampen the mood and some MLs become very defensive and will result in a less than desirable session. And to be fair, some ML whom do use hp pre-sensual do really put it away when sensual commence until finish the job. So unless and until they breach this basic rule, I give them some benefit of doubt lah.
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Nice point. It takes some skill to pull this off. Just glad that I haven't had to use this tip in recent months.
And yes, recalcitrants should simply be dropped, no two ways about it. Or at most, one more session to "confirm things".