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Originally Posted by dec82
i feel its kinda like an extra burden, life is not easy n standard of living is high in sg yet if have to support her family at the same time with our meager salary i wonder how the future lies... what is worst is the members of her family like her dad, bro etc stops working n expects the husband to solely support them financially... this is totally unfair to the husband... i can understand that WL put their own family above everything else... but how do we change their perspective of us providing for her family? any bros please advise ...
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The best is not to marry a WL. But if you really fall in love with one, do also open both eyes. Do not let sex blurr your vision. It will take a long time to change the thinking of a typical viet WL. If you marry a younger one, then it may be worse. The main thing is that you must shift her attention to your own family. talk to her and let her understand what is it like in the real developed world. It will take a long time to change her thinking, but there's no harm trying.
