Due to the Covid, your life is someone stagnated because of the lock down and many restrictions.
You have more time now and you remain single or unhappily married. Other than the usual family chores, there are no new activities that distract you.
Once you are free, you will check which SPA to go and which ML to find.
Often spending $100 per trip and 3 times per week. It becomes an habit and you easily spend $1500 per month.
Then out of a sudden, you met a gal (Not ML, WL or those commercial gals) somewhere in the workplace, social events or party.
You started to date and when not dating, you read, exercise and do something more constructive. You dont even think of sex but both of you spend time together enjoying
Going to Spa is once a while to get over the sexual needs which is not available at this stage with her. Sex is not even on your mind.
Suddenly you realized that you have been spending foolishly and wasting quite a lot of money in the past for the temporary release. So you stopped immediately and completely.
(That explained why some brothers disappear for a while) Then after a while when relationship fails, you are back to commercialism and into SBF forums. (That explains why some return)
The vicious cycle continue.
Anyone been through this?
Feel free to share.
