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Besides the physical aspect of finding ML to release and fulfill our needs, there is also an emotional element which cannot be discounted.
There are times we shared with MLs our feelings and our thoughts which we cannot share with our partner or family members, be it a secret or social stigma. Some of us are seen as the perfect husband, bf or even goody colleagues who are faithful and law abiding. By going to MLs we can unlease our inner desires and emotions that we can misbehavior and still get accepted because we paid the price for it.
The experience can be therapeutic and in a way to make us feel so good and desirable. It is like we get our self worth and booster shot.

The flip side is we may not be able to pull ourselves out of it. There is a risk of getting addicted and worse still get KC with the ML. The amount of money spent can be excessive and over your means as what many bros have warned.

At the end of the day, we need to strike a balance and realise this is a just temporary relief. We need to get back to REALITY and accept that we cannot have everything according to our desires, whether we like it or not.