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Originally Posted by Kopiosteve

I also visit MLs and FLs for many many years, hehe, but my experiences have been quite different.

Yes agree with you, if don't click with a girl, better move on. You're not going to get that awesome, wild, sibeh shiok satisfaction that your brain is fantasizing about.

However, for me, when the girl and I click, when we really get along and "like" each other, there is no talk of extra money even though there's extra activities. I usually leave a small token tip, and visit her more often, but that's it. Yet the visits get hotter and hotter. To me, the person will also treat you better if there is physical and emotional connection. That’s also basic human behaviour. Peace

Steady bro! You are the man!