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Originally Posted by ssd3469
This thread was about the STD that i kena recently and advice on what steps I should take. Just a side question of whether should commercial sex be accepted or not? Or should we only have sex with our gf and wife. Maybe not even fwb as FWB is classified under recreational sex, actually sometimes we also have recreational sex with our gf and wife, meaning without the intention of reproducing. But still, should commercial sex be accepted? They will then say even for gf and wife you also pay in the form of dating expenses so it's still a transaction, but gf and wife will care for you ma. Because I keep finding it very hard to get over the hurdle in my mind to accept commercial sex, so was hoping if any bros can change my view.
It's not about wanna chiong don't be scared, is just nice I didn't thought about STD when I chiong(plus other factors).
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Put it this way...
Do you plan or wish or dream of having your own family?
Or do you even see yourself having one someday?
If the answer is no, why care so much?
Just go and have fun, life is short
If the answer is yes, my advice is don't chiong now...
Wait until you get married, get all the kids you ever wanted until your wife's factory shut down
Then you decide if you want to go chiong or not
Chiong-ing will greatly increase your chances of getting STDs
Actually sleeping around with women from dates, new gfs, FWBs too
But chances are definitely lower
For gfs and FWBs, you can always request to go for screening before you move into the territory of unprotected sex
For commercial sex or women from dates or even ONS, use the condom
Before you get married, stop your CCAs for at least 3 months and go for screening
Or at least this is what I do/did
Getting STDs is no joke
Some are curable, some aren't
If you are going to have kids and you got STDs that are not curable, such as herpes, syphilis or HIV
Do you seriously want to pass these incurable STDs to your kids?
Hope you get my point lol