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Originally Posted by ssd3469
Thank you for taking the time to write this. I guess because my life is similar to otaku/宅男, that is why it is hard for me to get a gf, I don't believe in joining communinty centre classes eg. cooking classes to know new girls also... I used to look handsome, went to binge eat and became fat after I got sabotaged, resulting in me harder to get a gf. My university grades and career also largely gone le. Talking about views, but how can we share something as intimate as sex with a stranger ie. prostitute?
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Funny thing is a lot of people want to find pretty girls, slim and good figure etc.
Others even want funnier things like must know how to cook and do housework (we live in a society where we can easier hire a helper)
Long hair, knows how to make up etc
But guy themselves? Are they macho and fit?
Are they taking care of their looks and know how to present themselves?
It goes both ways actually
If you don't believe in joining classes, social groups etc, you are only limiting yourselves to the circle of people you can meet
I used to do stuff when I was single, like taking up salsa classes, joining hiking groups, kayaking groups, went for a lot of social activities like bowling, karaoke, pool, birthdays parties, fashion shows etc
The wider the circle of people you come into contact with, the greater the chance, just like taking exams, how do you expect to score high marks if you don't even bother to study?
How can we share something as intimate as sex with a stranger?
Obviously we can to be honest, survival of species, evolution blah blah blah, we are all "designed" to procreate, to carry on the survival of our race, only difference between now and prehistoric times, we have evolved intellectually and we start questioning things like meaning of life, we start to do things for recreation instead of need for survival
But that still doesn't strip us of our basic instincts
If you don't erect after seeing a pretty lady naked, maybe there is indeed something wrong with your DNA
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Originally Posted by ssd3469
With regards to our sex life is our own business, but what if family members and cousins and uncles found out about it and started looking down on you or avoided sharing food with you?
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It is their own business, their minds, why do you need to care so much about what they think about you?
Who in this world is totally innocent?
Everyone is hiding something in their closet, so why need to bother?
If they look down or avoid you, then you stop seeing them
If they cannot accept you for who you are, it is their problem
Why do you need to conform to their ideals?
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Originally Posted by ssd3469
how do you quote from different posts btw?
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Can click on multi-quote button next to quote
Or manually copy and paste
Will be the same too