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Originally Posted by ssd3469
but they are my immediate family members how can I stop seeing them or break off ties completely with them? I know we need to slim down but I have tried jogging and it not very effective to slim down, plus I not very disciplined in jogging esp. jogging alone. I wanted to ask you something else but I cannot remember I think.
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Originally Posted by ssd3469
if you already have 2 wives why do you still go and chiong? Is it because wife don't give? In that case why cannot divorce? Cause you have kids already? Just divorce lah, then kids go with 1 of you, then you can lead single life and chiong with as much freedom and frequency as you like.
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one aunty and one uncle totally couldn't stand me
because i didn't marry an ethnic chinese
came to scold me saying I let down my parents
what do you think I should do? divorce my wife because of their views and find an ethnic chinese to marry?
why should I do something just to please others? this is my life, my choice
you cannot please everyone in the world
I chased them off and I never spoke to them again
my parents eventually accepted my decision and my wife, so who are they to say otherwise?
Immediate family members or relatives or friends, it doesn't matter, this is your life, not their life
As long as you don't commit crimes or do anything against your conscience, then just do what you want
why care so much about what others think?
everything in life is about discipline, well mostly
taking the easiest example, if you don't study hard, memorise and practise the questions
do you expect to get straight As in your exams all the way?
maybe yes, if you are a genius
if you have no discipline to diet and exercise but continue to binge eat, you can't expect your body to slim down
if you cut down on your food and exercise everyday, you will lose weight
another way is to eat nothing but fruits I heard, but I never tried
anyway, some girls like plump or fat guys, so it is entirely up to you and your luck then
i can only suggest
married one, then she said she changed her mind about having children
so i divorced her and married the second one
I have sex with my wife, once to twice a week at least
thing is i am very attracted to slim girls, my wife was 48kg before we got married
now her weight is around 20kg more after having 3 kids
i find it hard to be erect or stay erect, so i had to do other things such as watch porn, close my eyes to fantasize, cross-dress etc
I just cannot get naturally aroused with her, but I love her lots
yes, i cheated on her with two other girls
but at least I don't get the feeling that I got ED, I get aroused with them naturally but not with my wife
another thing of getting aroused is foreplay, my wife doesn't like foreplay, she just likes jumping straight into sex, ask her to give bj, she only gives like one bj every few months
whereas the other two girls does it without even thinking, but i don't need the bjs when i am with them anyway, already rock hard when i see them getting undressed, just looking at their beautiful bodies alone is enough to get me high
i love my wife and kids, getting divorced will only ruin my kids lives
anyway, my sex life is fabulous right now