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Originally Posted by ssd3469
Since you are so smart why you got herpes then? Secondly, it is not that I don't want to work on my own accord, it is that I got sabotaged until my university grades and career path is gone. With regards to mum's advice, while it is true that I am an adult who can make his own decisions, but because they are my parents, people whom I have trusted and followed since young thus their advices carry a lot weight to me. Plus it was my mum who said you can throw away the conservative values I have taught you since young now before I decided to go visit one(plus other factors I listed just now). Btw the ML was not the one who adviced me, although a few MLs adviced me, but that wasn't what I typed to you, plus mainly it's still my mum's advice, ML's advice only affected me a bit. Lastly, I don't see why you need to be sarcastic, it doesn't get your point across any better.
Btw this is my life, I don't owe an explanation to my family members or anyone in this forum. I was only explaining my situation because I want to get help and advice, not because I owe anyone an explanation here. Pls know the difference. Hence the guy who said me holding moral high ground is wrong as well because I don't owe anyone an explanation here in the first place.
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Herpes can spread by touch alone, such as even by some infected aunties giving you an innocent kiss when you were a baby or small boy
What has IQ has to do with getting infected with herpes?
I have also mentioned that using condoms isn't effective against some STDs and STIs, so nothing is foolproof, chiong = take risk
I have also listed down a few of them and herpes is one of them that I have mentioned
You don't understand what I was saying, you missed out my point earlier or you didn't read my earlier post to you?
Is this more detailed explanation clearer now?
Sarcasm is good in the sense that it catches attention
Maybe I wasn't previously, that was why you missed out this point
Poor university grades because you got sabo and career path gone too?
Well, at least you got a degree
That puts you at an advantage over a lot of others who don't have a degree
Eg. In engineering, as long as you got degree, you can easily get a job as a job as engineer straight away
But if you only got IT cert or diploma, you can only become technician or at most assistant engineer
Similarly in accounting, as long as you got degree, you can easily get a job as an accountant or auditor
With a lower education such as diploma, you can only hope for accounts/finance executive at the very best
Same as in other industries
You can easily get a better job with higher pay than a lot of others who don't have any degrees
If you cannot get a job in the best or biggest companies or a public job in the gov because of your grades, just get a similar job in a private limited set up and slowly work your way up
You can easily find a decent job with a decent pay with a degree anywhere in SG
Why don't you just appreciate what you have?
If you just keep looking back and grumbling, nothing is going to change for the better
Parents are humans too
And they can give poor or even bad advice just like any other person on the street
Grow up and stop being a mummy's boy or daddy's boy
If you can't see past this reasoning, there is no point in replying you anymore
My parents gave me a lot of bad advice too in the past
Telling me to study in a course which is in a sunset industry
Kept discouraging me from becoming a navigator when I wanted to choose a job different from my studies
I ended up earning more than twice my peers as a navigator
Changed many different jobs after that
Eventually set up a business using the money saved from my job as navigator despite my parents protests
Turned out to be quite profitable, but had to shut down due to covid losses
Did not have a golden mountain to rely on to tide over the covid period
After many years of hard work and experience, managed to join a blue chip company about a year ago
I didn't grumble at taking a wrong course, didn't grumble at having to close my profitable business due to covid
I just kept on going
Hard work and perseverance pays off
If I had stuck to their advice, I would still be single now hunting for some girl who is of ethnic Chinese descent, stuck to it for more than 15 years and single during this time
I didn't and in less than 5 years, I got married twice and now with 3 kids
You say you are here to get help and advice
But it seems like nothing we have said seems to have gotten through to you
Makes me wonder