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Originally Posted by babyjohnwong

You said when someone gets horny, it is normal not to think of potential consequences
So I said if doing things without thinking of potential consequences such as when getting horny, it is similar to a person getting drunk but insists on driving home instead of take public transport
That is the difference between someone smart and any other ordinary fellow on the streets
I didn't say you are not smart, that why you got STDs
Nothing wrong even if you are not smart
Just that you will tend to make more mistakes in life, sometimes even potentially fatal ones
Smart people will think before they act

You can also use your hand PCC what
I had my first gf in my 30s, I am sure a lot of other guys are the same too
What do you think we were doing from since teenager until 30 plus?
Go to prostitute week in week out? Go FWB?
Want to find FWB might as well find GF
You mean at 30+ years old now, you never ever use your hand before?
You dunno how to satisfy your sex urges?
Normal sex drive, PCC once every two days
If high sex drive, PCC everyday or 2-3 times a day
Not enough, then PCC 4-5 times or more a day until your legs go weak
Don't talk rubbish leh, is it a must to find prostitute?

I only got a diploma before I was forced to take up further studies
Because I could not find a decent job
And I have to pay for my further studies with my own money while working full time and studying half time
If you got a degree and say cannot find a decent job and decent pay
Then what? People with IT cert or diploma or even lower do what?
Eat shit ah?
身在福中不知福
Understand what that means?
I have been through life worse than you
You started off life better than me and still thinks it sucks
Got a degree still want to complain?

When I got my first pay check after I finished my studies and after my NS
Guess what was the first thing I did?
I went to KFC to buy myself a zinger meal and went for to see a movie
Why?
Because I never had the money to eat fast food and only saw a movie once in my whole life before I turned 21 (my sister brought me MacDonald's and treated me to the movies when she got her first pay check)
To me, being able to go fast food restaurants and watching movies is a luxury
And guess what? That first real pay check was less than 2k before CPF deduction
My family had to scrimp and save to put me through poly
I even had to work part-time to pay for my own expenses while in poly

There is always someone worse off than you
Appreciate what you got and work hard to make a better life for yourself
If you keep continue to surround yourself with miserable instances in your life and wallow in self-pity
You will be stuck there forever and won't get out
Pretending to get help and advice just to get attention will not last forever
If you cannot wake up and look at the brighter side of life, there is nothing anyone can do to help you if you don't help yourself
I am done talking to you, bye

seems like you don't wish to read my reply, in that case I shall not waste my time typing out then. TLDR: I still don't agree.