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Originally Posted by NickChan92
hi bros, just post here to consult an issue that is worrying me recently.
My erection is fine with my regular ML/FL, no matter HJ/BJ/FJ, as long as we have enough foreplays (mostly kissing and zhut), I can easily erect and cum happily.
however, I have issues with some new girls, such as those dome 3 jap girls.
The same symptom is, they don't start by teasing or kissing, instead they just commercially kiss nipple a bit then directly proceed to bj (also very commercial and rushy ones, i just can't feel passion or emotions)
I can remain very hard for the first few mins, then suddenly when they start those mechanical bj I will not feel it anymore. Then dick will then become soft in a few mins and can't erect for the rest of the session.
normally when this happens (when the fl notices dick softening during bj), they will try even harder and faster to try to make me hard again. but it turns out to be the faster they do, the faster my dick will soften.
I'm 33 yo this year. Do I have ed issue that needs to go to doctor?
Thanks bros in advance!
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Originally Posted by kangkong
Same issue as you bro, no issues with the regular but not for new ones
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hi guys, i had a similar problem before: i tried expensive, premium abalone, looks not bad, body nice, but super commercial feel, then i just couldn't stay hard
being unable to stay hard is
not just a physical issue, but also a mental one. of course do workout occasionally to ensure good blood flow to your number two, but also understand what you like, then try to spot patterns in adverts that help you identify which type of girl is more likely to meet your criteria
for example, although looks matter to me, since long ago i gave up assessing adverts based on pics and vids cos AI too advanced already: some girls enhance their pics/vids until their own mother can't recognise them (which might be their intention anyway)
instead, i assess based on honesty cos that is a proxy for attitude (more honest, likely better attitude). and honesty can be seen from how realistic their stats are:
-175cm/45kg/36E monster boobs? while i prefer tall slim girls with big boobs, this is fake as hell (imagine an unrealistic, barbie doll figure) and the girl might have bad attitude after dealing with disappointed/angry bros who visited her earlier and reject/walk off or give fast food/aeroplane service cos of no lack of business from bros attracted by height and/or bust size
vs.
-160cm/45kg/34B? now that is more realistic/honest and likely have better attitude cos she isn't fighting on boob size but will have to compete in other ways (e.g., offer more GFE) to hook customers
recognise that everyone has different likes/dislikes (highly raved about girls might simply not be your type --- or you may not be their type!) and sure, the strategy i described won't work all the time, but at least i hope this helps you understand what gets you hard and how to improve your hit rate of finding the type of girls that gets you hard!
finally, from what you describe i don't think its ED but you can consider discussing on sexual health subforum if you want to know more
