hi guys, i had a similar problem before: i tried expensive, premium abalone, looks not bad, body nice, but super commercial feel, then i just couldn't stay hard
being unable to stay hard is
not just a physical issue, but also a mental one. of course do workout occasionally to ensure good blood flow to your number two, but also understand what you like, then try to spot patterns in adverts that help you identify which type of girl is more likely to meet your criteria
for example, although looks matter to me, since long ago i gave up assessing adverts based on pics and vids cos AI too advanced already: some girls enhance their pics/vids until their own mother can't recognise them (which might be their intention anyway)
instead, i assess based on honesty cos that is a proxy for attitude (more honest, likely better attitude). and honesty can be seen from how realistic their stats are:
-175cm/45kg/36E monster boobs? while i prefer tall slim girls with big boobs, this is fake as hell (imagine an unrealistic, barbie doll figure) and the girl might have bad attitude after dealing with disappointed/angry bros who visited her earlier and reject/walk off or give fast food/aeroplane service cos of no lack of business from bros attracted by height and/or bust size
vs.
-160cm/45kg/34B? now that is more realistic/honest and likely have better attitude cos she isn't fighting on boob size but will have to compete in other ways (e.g., offer more GFE) to hook customers
recognise that everyone has different likes/dislikes (highly raved about girls might simply not be your type --- or you may not be their type!) and sure, the strategy i described won't work all the time, but at least i hope this helps you understand what gets you hard and how to improve your hit rate of finding the type of girls that gets you hard!
finally, from what you describe i don't think its ED but you can consider discussing on sexual health subforum if you want to know more
