[real812]

Ok.... Guys understand if they are in this line, try to see how they think of guys...

If you work in a computer repair service center for just one brand, say repair service for Lenovo. Every day you only see spoiled Lenovo laptops come in getting complains and customers being angry. This is the only time you hear this brand Lenovo. What will you think of the brand? You will think this brand is bad, horrible all so many spoil. Because you only see the broken ones come in. Of course the good ones like 99% of the market where got come repair...?

So if you are a girl who works in this line, what kind of guys you ONLY see every day? Married guys...maybe low self-esteem guys who can only get to be with girls if he pay her..old uncles..rich guys but lonely. Not really the quality men in the market go meet her. You ownself know yourself la. All have one thing in common. The ones that talked to her are the ones that pay her and give gifts in exchanged for something back.

You think she can understand 'love' if there is no sort of transactional agreement? You think no trust issues if the only time a guy is nice to her and gift her something is when he wants something back?

You see all the chats la...it's always pay her this and that. Give her gifts. Pay her more and more to get her attention. Until she thinks this is how men shows love. Then she accepts you...you realised you cannot afford her to consistently shower her with gifts and money. You blame she got high lifestyle when you ownself set the bar too high. You dump her, she have more trust issues with men. So now is more of her to see this as prove.

Now to protect herself, you show genuine attention without gifts also how to trust? Got conflict already, why you so nice to me? What you want back? Can support meh if she quit her job? All this already the old bird will also give advice also. Come here be careful. How to protect yourself. First thing is make money from men only.

IF they look stuck up, that's how the ladies over there from their country protect their feelings. They're more resilient than our soft cushy SG life. It's easier to fake nice, than to hide anger when they think got smell your bullshit.

So please la..don't fool yourself with your own illusion. You ownself pay her to be nice to you. You know what this is. Don't make someone else's life get affected because of your own foolishness while you walk away happy.