Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
Well, after seeing so much from all of my bros out there,
I decided to post my story,
Well, i met my wife at a certain KTV during an happy hour session with my customers. Usually i will reject gals that come in early..but the moment i saw my present wife, nothing much was said and she sat with mi. As a playboy, the first thoughts in my mind was how to fxxk her for free(which i have done many times). So as usual i took her number and msg her,and the following mon i drove her to work, and followed up with an happy hour session with her and some of my khakis..From den on, everyday is a routine for me, i will drive her to work everyday without fail,i even told her i will bring her to malaysia for a u-turn and extend her stay which of course its part of my evil plan to close the deal and be done with it. Once she called me, told me to bring her to buy HP, i was telling myself, the pattern come out liao, surprisingly, she paid 300 for the phone herself. Hmm...that started to change my thinking of her, and i brought her to malaysia to spent 1 night in JB, that started to totally change my feelings from lust to love. And the day i bought her back to singapore, i was her ong xa. But our new lovelife was short as she did nt managed to extend her stay so she had to go back to vietnam for a month before coming back. The moment i saw her off at the airport, my heart bled, and shit i told myself,i am really falling in deep love with her. The moment she went back to vietnam, i lost my job,at first i dared nt tell her abt it as i scare that will scare her away. So i told her i have a long holiday and will be meeting with her in vietnam soon, thats the first time i flew to see someone whom i known last den a month and nt knowing her well, but its just in my guts and the urge to go see her...all my friends thought i was crazy, but well its just blinded my love...the few days before i went there i confessed to my gf that actually i am out of job and i am going there using my last savings, she said its ok...she just wanna see mi...so i flew there...and i saw my lovely ba xa waiting for me at the airport, i was so happy to see her, so needless to say, i brought her and her friends to eat,shopping,etc. I was down to like 100-150 sing dollars and my gf was still shopping like crazy,i was like damn,how am i suppose to pay for the hotel and eat, n i have like 5 more days to go? I was already smsing my bros in singapore to get reeady to transfer money to me liaoz...but in the end, my wife is the one paying for everything...to the day we went back to singapore. On then i realised, hey there are still good gals in vietnam. So the moment we got back, her friends urge us to get married and so we did. Act we had a very rough patch during the early times, as i was nt werking and my wife actually had to werk in her past line just to survive, and even our engagement ring is bought by her.I know its feels like i am a useless guy, but no choice, no work=no money. Even then, feed me alone nt enough, she still has to support her family in vietnam. But u guys will nv know how much it hurts to see her go work....but she nv go hotel with any customers one, coz she is quite pretty and can have alot of customers in a day, she can earn up to 300+ dollars a day jus by sitting down and chitchat(i was her customer once) so i know hw she works. And i fetch her to-and-fro work everyday without fail. So nw i am a happily married man, with a kid-on-the-way, with a stable job now and a beautiful wife, wat more can a man ask for? Although sometimes we still send money back to vietnam, but its like 200-300 a month?
Sorry for the long story, but jus wanna share my truth life story..
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