Maybe u can call it desperation :P
A legal BDSM club would make the owner a very rich man here in SG. I'm not going to go to Tokyo 4-5 times a year just for the experience, but in a 1 week stay, might easily rack up 3-4 visits to make the most of the trip.
My gf dosen't mind me visiting mistresses, as long as no sex is involved
