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comNot sure how many ladies in this forum but I knew sammy existed since donkey years back thanks to an ex bf.

In any case, not here to discuss him. I just need practical advice and your take on this.

Kinda happily attached. There's only one problem. My bf comes too fast and is to a large extent unable to please me in bed. Initially thought I could get over this minor hiccup. I don't wish to embarass him by asking my female frens for their take or advice, neither wish to visit female forums cos I seriously do not see what info they can offer that I don't know..

Background:
Before me, he had only had 2 girlfrens, less than a handful of sexual intercourse experience (making out less than 15times a year) and mostly do-it-himself mode. Not fantastically high sex drive but not a dead rat either.

I'm the exact opposite. I do believe myself to a high sex drive and appetite.

And therein lies the problem.

He has tried to delay coming but in my context I stil do find it fast. To be fair, there is an improvement but 30secs more.... Banging me wise, his style is routine and I am really jaded with it. Have encouraged him to try other styles but...he tries it only once and then reverts to his favourite missionary.

Getting increasingly unfulfiled, increasingly I am beginning to search online for tantric, sensual or even escort services for women..which is bad. All in all, I am still trying to preserve this relationship; but i do not know how long i can endure this.


I just have 2 questions.
1. Are there anyone out there or any suggestions on what i can do to "teach" him...? I was hoping I could engage someone to come and do a practical on me and at the same time, be able to guide him and all on the hot spots and how to properly do it.

2. Anyone tried tantric massage? Would it be good for my bf? as well as me..in terms of sexual side.

Thks loads.