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Originally Posted by yang punk
Miss Woo...
Since you didn't give your age I presume that you are both in your early to mid 20s? Basically there is nothing wrong with both of you. Sad to say if we men are honest we are far from the being the studs that we hope to be or you ladies hope to have.
Honestly most of us when young, would ejeculate before the lady unless she is highly sensitive and can cum easily. So for the smart guy if he wants to please the lady then he must be prepared to work hard. The trick is lots of foreplay... use lips tongue fingers... sex toys if she don't mind. Most ladies love oral sex and the man's tongue can outlast his dick anytime! (Ladies... men love to be blown too and bj also helps him to last longer when it cums to fj).
That said, Miss Woo, you have to ask yourself... is your self sextisfaction the most important factor in your relationship? If yes... then I am sorry to say you are both a mismatch. Better to face the truth now than later. But if his other qualities make up for his lack of virility, than a good heart to heart talk with him should do the trick... provided his ego can take it. Suggest to him more foreplay, oral sex, use dildo or vibrator to let you cum a few times before he insert.
The good thing is with age, he should be able to last longer.
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All that you above, I did take into consideration. Have resorted to watching porn just to instruct him but...results stil the same. As per what some bros here have suggested; desensitise his male member.. i did that too.. n also held him back from coming by pausing the activities. I'm not an expert but i have my fair share of experience to try those methods 1st.. to no avail.
For info, I donot think it is premature ejaculation. He comes fast like les than a few mins.. and it is frustrating for me. I believe for him so; cos despite what my mouth says abt me feeling fine, i think my face does show disappointment?? face is like an open book.
I know all men has ego and I have tried to put it down gently n nicely.. When I suggested that we get another person in, he balked at the idea to be honest and I tried to potray it as it would be enriching and would help our sex life. As it is, we are planning or rather in talk of getting married to each other though nothing has been planned.
He sleeps everywhere and anytime. When he happens to skive off work for 2 hours in the noon, n i happen to be home. I ask for it and he tells me he is tired..let him sleep 1st.
Nightfall, same thing. N then when we eventually do it, he comes fast.. and sleep comes fast too.. so no chance for a 2nd time. Same thing if you guys are thinking how abt weekends.
He is kinda not really into sex. Like he has his urges n I accomodate him all the time; im fine with it anytime. But those urges aint often? Beyond those urges, when I do try to "teach" or encourage something else, he aint keen to learn. Like you know if that person does not have a passion for it..he'll seem kinda "go-along-with-it cos-u-want-me-to" N we're both in our late late late twenties so no reason why this sorta things happens..