[colins]

To be frank, I thought that our young friend is here to seek answers for what he observed as betrayal of marriage. After all this is really the thread where this issue is being discussed. So leonard, if you are prepared to change your thinking, not by me or any individual, but by a common census, then tell us what you think rather than to suffer from prematured obstination.

Maybe one day when our child grows up, they may equally be influenced by the society (and church thinking) to consider us from a mightier-than-thou elevation. Too much morality brainwashing probably gives a person such intolerance, combined with immaturity and lack of exposure, you get someone who doesnt feel the need to empathise.

You got to know that there is no such thing as completely right or wrong, everything is relative to our accumulated experience.