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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75 View Post
Only 2 words....good luck....
Thanks bro. short and sweet. Thats what I need.

Sat. she spend the night at my place. I have my own house but I stay with my parents to take care of my aging dad so I rent out my unit to a Burmese family.

Yes. she met my parents.
How it started was on one of the weekend, my son as usual, was over at my parents place for the weekends (I am a divorcee). My son was surfing the net and he announced his motive again; showed me one of the Ben10 toys and ask me to get it for him. I told him Bugis Seiyu may have and I am going there
So..., I was shopping with her when my son called a few times asking if I had "got it" for him. I was quite reluctant as he is already not doing well in his studies and his mother will confirm throw away the toys. So I told him I haven't seen it yet despite I was standing in front of the toy. My viet gal, overheard and reprimanded me; saying that even on weekend he doesn't have quality time with his dad, so am I so cruel to deny him that? It make sense somehow. I bought the toy.

So I was glad I did and broke the news to my son. Then mins after he kept calling to when I will bring it home for him. It was a Sunday, and his mum will pick him up around 10 plus nite.
Shit! I have to pass it to him asap.

Monday will be another week of hell (work) for me, and I am not prepared to end the evening with her yet. So I ask her to accompany me to bring it over to my son. Of course, if you want to hug and fuck a gal but yet forbid her to see your place unless special reason then it raise concern for others.
So I invited her in. My mum was a superb host and never let her guest felt neglected. Soon after a few conversation, mum hit it off with her and invited her for tonic soup next Sat.
Yes, I did not review her work here.

Next sat came but then parents was going out when we came so it was a brief convesation and soon after I am alone with her.
Yah.., I bonk her twice.

Latest Sat (19 July 08).
Beforehand we have spoke after she questioned me why I have so much money to boooze and merry everynite? Plus the frequent extended stay at 81.
I told her staright it had ate into my savings and I am running dry, coupled with a bad situation that I may have to seek another job. (bad boss).
She doesn't want to go 81 and join me for drinking anymore, and check on me at nite if I am at home.
So fast forward..., I was having a great conversation with her at the coffee shop over "tea" only, and it started to drizzer rain but I couldn't bear to end it and invited her over to my place. She went up and pack her stuff and came with me.

Didn't bonk her that nite except went for supper and hug/talk/KC.. whatever..
Oh we slept at 3am.

Next morning she woke up before me and KC my mum already. Helping her to prepare lunch. She even volunteer to mop the floor later on after I woke up to vacuum the floor but we insist a strong 'No", cos she is a guest after all.
She stayed for untill evening before I had her to join me to Sim Lim Sq. to pick up a wireless card, had dinner and sent her home.
Soon after an hour later as usual, she called me to check if I am back home. And tonite she added that I started to not calling her often.
Ah... yes! I called her less often. she was the one to call me.
So naturally I have to give 1001 reasons.

Being with her, I spent alot on my boooze and entertaining new friends. Fortuantely the guat have not relapse yet. But the most taxing was lack of sleep, and lack of opportunity to explore new territories(gals...)

Was it worth it?? I dun know. But for now, I am in cost cutting mood. So lets see how it goes.....

Thanks for listening.
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