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Originally Posted by X_plorer
Hey Bro, your situation is quite same as mine or even a lots of bros out there, but yours is gf, mine is wife..
Their Family keep calling after a short period of time. I've been sending money more punctual than another working adults pay day.. But i can predict confirm there are something coming again and again.. This one sick, that one accident, this one give birth, that one study.. Seems that every problem also arise to me.. Me 1 person working have to feed my baby, her and her family.. But luckily after been a long time, when somethings arise from her house, only giving a very small amount. Otherwise, i also married for having a happy family or just a ATM machine..
Sometimes keep just thinking, if i no need to send money to her family in VN, that would be good. At least my new car instalment would be lesser by half.. Her mum got daughter, got son, but how come none of them is supporting, but me as a son in law is doing it..
Sometimes keep thinking got married wrong person or from wrong country. But as for my wife spending, still okay, only occasionally likes to buy a bits of clothing which i think 99% gals would do so, otherwise This Fashion can have so much outlets.. But the main headache things is still her family side..
Bros out there. how many got the same or similar situation as me?
I think some would be worse. But of course i'm not condeming vn gals. Still can see some are good also.. But some really cannot make it and can do anything just for money.. So sad... Even Betraying their husband...
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Maybe mine is only girlfriend that is why she never ask for more. Actually she has a cousin in USA who is supporting and sending money to her brother (only vn guy I know who is supported by a gal) and family. Lately she gave birth and don't send alot back to them. The amount and frequency my girlfriend asked, I think it is still alright and reasonable as compared to those higher cc vn gal. I am also thinking if I will just be like her family daily/weekly ATM once we got married.
Afterall as a couple, need to support each other family. If wife really take care of the house and my parents, I think supporting her family in monetary terms once while is ok.
Girls definitely like to go shopping. At least I see many vn gals go to THIS FASHION rather than some expensive boutique in the city. My girlfriend in vn never buy clothing for herself. Usually is her friends who go back to vn after earning some money in sillypore bring her out shopping and buy for her. She also rely on richer neighbour who will pass her clothing which they don't want anymore.