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Originally Posted by maxrex
For guys here who are hoping to have a good Vietnamese girlfriend, I will advise you guys to take some spare time off and fly to Vietnam. Really, there is no point looking for love from Vietnamese working ladies in Joo Chiat and Geylang. Vietnam's population currently stands at about 86.5 millions. Most match-making agencies in Singapore are real b******. It is much cheaper to explore around Vietnam and befriend some Vietnamese women. I had been to Vietnam (Saigon and Hanoi) many times since 2004. About myself, I am an educated Singapore white-collared man who have a Vietnamese wife from North Vietnam.
I don't think that most North Vietnamese women ever want to marry Western men. My sisters-in law and some friends of mine confirmed with me. Only 10 to 15% North Vietnamese women want that. It is different as compared to South Vietnamese women.
So far, my wife has been very good to me. I know her for about 1 year before we got married. Her family is very big and is not rich at all. And my wife never ask me for money to remit back to her family in Vietnam. Not even once due to my wife's refusal for my financial assistance to her family. She even told me that her family can manage on their own. Some of her siblings are working in Saigon while her 2 siblings are waiting to enter university. It is very rare for us to talk about money. I always give her $20 each day for her to buy grocery and her daily meals. I always handle the financial aspects in the household. She is studying English everyday and we communicate to each other in Vietnamese. As for our daily lives, she always put out the shoes for me to wear when I leave home for work and always wait for me at the door to welcome me home from work. I feel so blessed. I don't think many Singapore wives will do that to their husbands. But my wife can be very jealous sometimes when I occasionally talk to my Vietnamese friends online. I can tell you that a lot of Vietnamese women are very jealous by nature. Know what? The number of divorce cases is fast increasing in big Vietnamese cities now.
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Hi Max,
glad to hear you are doing well and all the best,,,and seems getting a North Viet gal is a better possibility,,,but just a few questions...if Vn gals are quite the jealous type and divorce are increasing,,,who initiates the divorce ? the guys or gals? and if its the gals,,,wont divorce be a stigma to them? i mean its harder for a divorce gal to re-marry than a divorce guy right? And north viet gals are still quite traditional so they more tolerant but sometimes i see the typical Vn guy also like to play around and drink and gamble,,,but there are guys who worked hard but play hard also,,so i do find typical Vn guy like to play around,,,
this is just a comment,,,any other bros care to share?