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Old 18-08-2008, 02:25 PM
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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Originally Posted by maxrex View Post
Hi Hanoi-Kid,

Thanks for your wishes. It is not necessary for the guys to always initiate the divorce. Some women even ask for that. It depends on the severity of their marriage crisis. You can say that it is not easy for many divorced women to re-marry because a lot of Vietnamese men prefer a virgin wife. It's a known fact that most Vietnamese guys like to drink beer. Some guys beat their wives while others look for lovers. But not all are that bad. I have a couple of Vietnamese guy friends and they take care of their wives well. My wife lived in North Vietnam for first 20 years of her life. After that, she came to study and had a decent job in Saigon for 7 years. Most Vietnamese women are very loyal when it comes to love. It does not matter if the girl is from the South or the North. It all comes down to her personality and how suitable both of you are. Good luck to you for finding love.
There are still lots of good VN gals available in VN. Most of you guys went to
all the wronged places to look for a VN gf/wife. VN guys, in general, still
have the chauvinistic traits in them. A good VN wife is like a pillar of support; not like most fair-weather SG wife(very close to you when you're doing very well, out of sight when you're in dire straits.