Thanks to all the taiko, sifu and bro. for your valuable opinions and sharing your experiences... I can't believe that all of you can be so helpful and passionate. I am so touched... Is this what the chinese called brotherhood? Well pointed well taken and I will becareful... frankly speaking I ask myself why did woman ...any woman look for a man as companion beside sex? security?I dont think any woman would like to be lay by some stranger or someone who she doesnt has feeling for??? We guys dont...I am sure they are the same....well in simple money... no matter she is a local or foreigner or mei mei... in the olden day they look for warrior to protect them ...but in modern day they look for those who can provide food, shelter, comfort and protection ... and in this 20th century all this equal to money. So if you have a local girlfriend or mei mei or any woman eventually it come back to the basic money... who will let you lay and didn't ask anything back instead or even pay you? Unless you are as handsome as Our taikor GTO or Adidas or can sweet talk like our MR. Bonk88 ... the James bond language ...ha ha.
The different or local girls and mei mei is that mei mei ask money right after you layed them in small amount... local girl will give you credit and will ask a lump sum from you once you fall for them and propose or later on tie you down and ask from you for the rest of the life. That is the norm and that is what a man should do... take care of the woman and his family... I suppose all those who is married and have a family do give his wife and children a substantial amount of stipend every month before they allocate their extra money to cheong right? All we need to becareful is being cheated... in term of heart ... which some of the mei mei are really good in. Well I wouldn't call it cheat... If it happened I will take it as I brought an expensive pussy... haha.
