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Originally Posted by cablesnwires;
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We spent the rest of the time in Genting going for makan, treating her to Ah Yat MY99 pax, bought some gifts totalling about MY1500, went to gamble (no win no lose), but just no sex. All in all, about S$2000 was spent on this trip.
I forgot to mention, in one afternoon, I did ask her this:
When we come here, who is accompanying who? and her answer? she's accompanying me!! haha....
What I learned from here?
I was naive
I fell into KC trap, deep enough to taste what is shit
Going on a trip, do not have any expectation in return because along the way, anything can happen, and will happen and that is going to be the biggest dampener if things don't turn out right.
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bro, I up you my humble 3 pts for your effort.
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you wrote that you felt naive and the rest of the words as above after she answered that she was accompanying you. What response were you expecting from her not to feel naive and all that? Will it make a difference?
I read you spend 2K, and other than the time wasted, money was your sacrifice. So if you were to felt an importances about it, my query is, did she forced you to? Were you in a state of being influence by drugs or alcohol that you cannot in your right state of mind made sound judgement to the best of your interest. Were your objective aka "your interest" a pursuit to impress her, pleased her, in exchanged for better tender sex, cheerful companionship? So please do not associate them if you have or haven't.
You were concern of the sms she rec'd. But regardless of it , what status are you to her that you deserve the other guy's sms to be declared voluntarily by her and her pro-active effort to ignore them? Then again what will you achieve if she showed you all the sms sent/rec'd?
In short, who are you to her to expect more? And are your expectation as such above befitting your effort? And must your effort be reciprocated in ways pleasing to you?
Sorry for being harsh bro. Paiseh