[Oceanlee]

Originally Posted by flowerpot

I am not happily married with my wife... our marriage has been on the rock for almost 2 years.... partly cos of my gf....

but we have not divorce, for the sake of our child....

now, my gf got pregnant. my gf knows abt my wife, and she is in dillemma...
sometimes, she say she wants to give birth to the little life, sometimes she say it is impossible for her to give birth to the little life,
making me equally confuse...

i don't mind giving the little life a chance. any views???

Consider this :
can you provide for 02 family in terms of monetary?
If yes, then your time will be split and you have to manage, tough work.

If No, let go the 2nd or the 1st, Your decision is not just based on your dick brothers, apply it on the damage control and your longterm happiness.

Review yourself, if you forsake the first and go with the current, will this happen so the next time when you met another down the road, which you rules by your emotional and small head .. thinking that the right one again.
(Rules of thumb, history tends to repeats)

The choice is U, no one can help, we can only advice accordingly.
U must prepared, to spend $$$$, time, emotional, pressure from all side.
Think through, this is no small issue.

Take care.