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Old 18-02-2009, 04:16 AM
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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Originally Posted by lambo_tan View Post
i can't seem to find any after marriage life articles on SG men marrying viet mail order brides. i'm actually quite keen going on one of those vietnam bride tour packages someday. Anyone here have any experiences on this to share ?

My concerns are as below:
i) is their motive weighted heavily on getting the PR status ? (afterwhich u might get dumped)
ii) do they usually stay faithful towards the husband and kids after marriage ?
iii) yearly provisions for their family in vietnam based on $SGD
Don't be naive and think that they marry you for your good looks. There is nothing wrong with us, Viet men. Some of us, back home in Vietnam, are just poor and with low wage earnings that can't provide for a spouse, so the women go looking elsewhere.

If you are charming, confident and with the riches then I am sure you got nothing to be afraid of.