`Getting a better life abroad' is always the main concern on their mind. Of course, to get a good life abroad, they always hope to have a good foreigner husband that will dote on them and also their family. Like i always say, there's no fix sum of money that she has to give to her family back home. The main thing is how you control the amount being given to her to remit back to her family each month. Control the household expenses and control the wallet, don't let them control the money. If you let them control the money, you will see DOOM DAY very soon.