[LostALau]

TS has given a lot of good info for new cheongster to follow as guideline. My opinion is, if u do not want to be KCed by the WL, then why bother to KC them in the first place.

If u have successfully KCed them and won their hearts and then throw them away, it is like trying to cheat someone of their emotion and hurt them.

My method is simply.....visit a WL for the purpose of visiting. Treat them nice and with respect. Make the session an enjoyable one for both. Then pay your due and say goodbye. If u feel that the experience is worth repeating, by all means RTF, then accomplish your mission and pay and say goodbye.

Never promise anything more or give them false hope. Never shortchange them. Pay them each them u use their service. If u feel generous, give some tips and stop at that.

If u like, continue your RTC until one day when she starts to KC u and ask for loan or more money. Then it is time for you to consider calling it a day. My two cent worth based on my decades of cheonging. So far so good.

Always remember that we can have only one gf or wife but countless number of WLs. If u fall into the trap, u will be breaking the golden rule of just having one wife and end up with two tigresses in your nest. You can imagine the consequence.