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Originally Posted by KangTuo
can change this thread to Understanding FAMILY members of Vietnamese Life Partner and how to change their mindset?
really dunno how the family members think...
1) always think of using own daughter/siblings to earn money
2) always think that foreigner got alot $.
Experience bro here... how you due with them?
I just had a converstation with my galfriend.. she is very sad.
She had a big argument with her sister yesterday. Her sis asked her whether I give my girlfriend money before I return to Sillypore. She replied her sis that I gave $100. The last time I give a sum of $ to pay for their mum hospital bill is ok already.
Her sis said that I gave so little only. Why a foriegner dun have $ to give? Why my galfriend only think of love and willing to work as shop assitance eaning miserable pay. She said my galfriend not giving money and worry for the whole family. She asked my galfriend to come Sillypore to work after the ban is lifted. Don't need to stay with me.
My galfriend complained to me that she is just like a money machine to her family. She is really tired of them...
Listen to all this complain, I also feel fustrated.  |
Not just to Viet gers... Also applied to other nationalities, Thai, Prc...
The problem is that they all seems to think we are damned rich leh.
Got Cars = Rich
Got house = Rich
Got SGD dollars = RICHIE RICH
but they never know how hard to earn a living in SG... Knn.. same leh. my ex thai terak always talk abt $$ until i fed up. Have to tell her off that we are not ATM machine.. Then she keeps quiet. Sometimes reasonings will not work one cause in their minds, we are the $$ GOD, GOLD MOUNTAIN AND WALKING ATM.