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Originally Posted by okinzuka
Hi I am new to this forum. I just want to share something about my so called future "wife". We are getting married this coming August. I know her in the local scene when she was a WL. Then I maybe too foolish after so long in the scene that there is love. I fall in love with her. When she went back to vietnam. I went there to look for her and take care of her. I proposed to her after 2 months of knowing her. She agreed and I am so happy. She had all along want to continue working as a WL and I am strongly against even to the extend of upping her allowance to more than 1k. 1 month away from the wedding, she secretly came to Singapore and work. She even asked another lady to lie to me by asking the lady to pass her allowance to her on the pretext of passing the money in vietnam. The incident happened on Friday and suddenly her handphone is off and she become uncontactable. I had spent 1 day looking for her. In vietnam, I am wondering if they value wedding. I am very sad. I am thinking if she is cheating me or just want to work one last time before marriage. I really need help... I want to clarify the matter with her but I don't know where is working...
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This is a typical story which we heard countless of times...i am not here to bash you or rub salt in your wounds...you should have read up this thread and you will not be in this state...too late and my suggestion is to forgive and forget...because what can you do to her if you found her...anyway only 2 months and not 2 years...i can sympathise with you...understand how hurt, angry and embarrassed you are in this state...my advice is to take it lightly and blessed that you had lost some money and gained some experience...oso gained alot of frens here in this thread...we can feel sorry for you but what good will that be...you play the field and you must be prepare to win or lose...
just my 2 dongs worth...