[KingEros]

Originally Posted by sadesade

to all brothers, i know one girl, age 20 plus, not very chio but also SYT, i got her hp no. when friends come out for ktv last year. she seems very friendly to me, some more say me cute.....
but the worst thing for me is she married, so i never give a second tot of up her or anything..but last time, in msn, she like very keen chatting with me, still say me cute......., then left mmsg on my facebook, proactively gave me her number and asked me to sms her sometimes...(she tot i didnt have her hp)..anyway, the fling feeling very strong....but she got hubby....shit, what shld i do? headaceh....
anyway, the tot of fucking her is very irresistible for me....help!!

Are you someone who rather "live with disappointments" or "live with regrets"?

I am someone who will always prefer to live with disappointments, rather than regrets ... so, if I were in your shoes, I'd tease her back until she takes the first initiative to significantly "ask for it". Know what I mean?

As for she being a married woman, this is also no barrier for me too ... but in your own interests, be very discreet just so that this "underground affair" can last as long as you decide it should.
I'm sure you dun wish to end up being paranged to death by a very possessive husband, right?

In your own interests too, try your best to understand (& verify on your own too, as you should not just take her words at face value) the status of her marriage.
If it is already on the rocks, then you should ask yourself if you are prepared to be a "life buoy" for her ... I mean, if she sees you as her long-term future replacing the husband she now has, then are you prepared to "live happily ever after" with this woman?

Yes ... even for a guy like me, who rather live with disappointments than regrets, would also make a very thorough risk-assessment study. I guess you should too.