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Originally Posted by deptrai4u
You should go Plan B and Plan C first. If there is any chance that Plan A can work, the response you can expect from her should be very very different. From what i hear from you about her current response... you can stay 1 week there and WILL NOT even have the opportunity to see her for a cup of coffee.
For a Vietnamese girl to bring you to her own place, its a VERY VERY complicated process. They have to feel that you are THE ONE they have been waiting for all these while and you are gonna be their future, the one and only one.. before they bring you to show you where they stay. But before we all get there, she must go thru the process :
1. really likes you
2. likes to be around you all the time
3. trust you and believe in everything you say
4. telling you a lot of things about their life, their dreams and their fear
5. very excited that you are going to HCMC
6. want to meet you at the airport when u touch-down and want to stay with you all the way until you go back to airport to return to sillypore
7. already telling you about all the exciting places and wonderful cafe and delicious food places she's gonna show you in HCMC when u are there
8. Complaining that 5-days stay is a bit too short, how about 1 month?
But bro, your starting position now is that .. "your hotel is a bit far from my house.... so maybe cannot meet..".
So for that, i think u better go to Plan B and C first and dun even bother about Plan A anymore.
However, if you get the same response from Plan B and Plan C after sometime... you should re-examine the 3 examples and notice that you are the common denominator.. it simply means that you are not giving them what they want and therefore you are not getting what you expect. Usually the case.
While you are there, for good Dim Sum, go to 148 Nguyen Trai street. For very good duck noodles, go to 455 Nguyen Trai street.
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Oh Bro deptrai4u,
thanks for your advice....
after hearing all these, i think my heart already know what thing....
should i give her a call to tell her i in hcmc and dont ask her whether she coming to meet me anot?
would that be a better idea?