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Originally Posted by warbird
I want to ask u n other experienced bros here re the many problems associated w/ long-term BY of 1 yr or longer. It's almost like keeping an er nai or getting married! Some gals want long-term commitment of at least a yr.  |
Actually, in my book, a 二奶 is a mistress.
All others are lovers, toys, meat , toilets or FBs
Let's start on the wants of long term commitments.
From a gal's POV
1) I have a fixed regular income to look forward to on a weekly, bi-monthly or monthly period.
Like any wage earner looking forward to pay day
2) No need to stoop so low as to GIVE themselves to so many men for some pocket money (very tiring and mind draining), let alone, making themselves feel really dirty
3) They can start planning on how to manage their steady in-flow of funds
4) The longer I drag with the man who BY me on a long term basis, the more time i have to KC him jialat jailat
After all, its a fact that the longer time 2 spends together, affections & emotions will develop
5) Most importantly, I only face 1 man!
6) The man who BY me is my main course, but what's stopping me from getting appetizers and desserts to get more income????
Since when is enough $$$$ enough???????
From a guy's POV:
1) Unless you wanna stop cheonging, this is a good way to maintain a new LOVE LIFE in your life
2) Can be headache, if you still cheong, everytime you see new blood, headache, cos need to part more $$$$ just to get new meat, some can't just outright dump the mistress, cos of the amount of time sacrifices she made for him, thus emotional attachments will lead you to pity her & thus still keep her around
3) A big danger is to actually fall in love wif them, for your initial aim was just the GFE and of cos, the meat
4) As time progresses, and feelings will develop in time for sure, she who entertained & fulfilled your WILDEST needs may want more than just $$$$, that's when a beautiful dream becomes a nightmare for you
5) These WLs can become extremely possessive when they decided to stick with you for watever reasons, then, you will have to not only sneak out from your wife, but also this new BY.....thus, you actually trap yourself from freedom of movement
What happens when i'm traveling or out stationed for a while?
I still have to put $$$$ into her account but is she gonna be faithful or have secret rendezvous behind my back?
Well, that's my humble from a WLs and a guy's point of view.
Bros wif more or feels mine are not accurate enuff, do share!