left my ex coy afew months a go, there was a new lady staff who came in 2-3 months prior my departure, we din associate much since diff area of work but she seat outside my office, so i got plently of chance to see here zao geng. she has average face with some pimp[le but she has pretty good figure and fair skin and nice legs, think she 28 yr old
during last few days of my time there, she one day jio me for lunch say wanna know more about this company as she is feeling the pressure, this ex coy has high turn over and very eccentric and difficult boss.
she we we for lunch, i told her about the ppl and what to expect who to look out for and advise here to see for herslef if she really like the job vs sacrifices to make worth it or not....she then kinda reveal she felt the stress of this job and dun know how long she can continue...
i also let her know i married and intend to go for tour after my last day...then she very nice and bot a tour bag tag for me and wife.
Then i found out from her, she a bit lone ranger cos she dare travel alone to cambodia b4.maybe i old fashion but 1 lone gal travel south east asia a bit daring...
anyway, 1-2 week after my last day, one day she sms me, but sms not clear, i tot she sms wrongly, i sms her 'i think u sms wrongly'
she sms me back,'no , the sms is for u'
then she sms me again say if i free to talk, i was with wifey to dinner so i said i call her back. then from then on she call me just after work got another time to pour out her diificulties at work...
i also a bit 'gian' so patronise her a bit. recently i sms her ask her how life, then she sms she quitting, she then call me and chit chat talk about work and her plans afterwards, then she ask me go out for lunch or kopi...but when she ask she sound a bit like pai seh or sheepish over the phone....
just asking u guys who use to office affairs as i use to work in all guys environment, is this a bit strange for lady colleague to keep calling or sms u , then follow up with meal invitation?
normally most ladies will know when to stop being too close to another guy colleageu right? esp he is alread married.
i actually a bit interested if really is no string attach fling, if like complicated and become like fatal attraction then i surely avoid.
any advice from experience guys how u should play this???
no flaming me, besides, i admit maybe myself thinking too much, it is nothing more than a friendly meal, lidat i also relief as no temptation mah but what if temptation arise . also how will a woman make suggestive move with sounding too obvious or slutty?
