then the women go seek counselling where? if the men live longer but the womens' quality of life deteriorates, won't we be building our happiness and longevity over their corpses?
i think polygamy is fine on a case-by-case basis, but with mutual understanding and equality. don't think it works for everyone. for example, if i have a gf or wife, and i don't want her to fuck around, then when i'm in a r/s i stop fucking around. clearly, as you can see, i'm still single right now