[cashier]

Originally Posted by SingViet

I agree with Bro Hurricane88. You have to run your life yourself and you also have to run your vn spouse's life. One thing that i know i will never do is to let my wife run the finances. When i first got married with my wife, she requested to run the finances. I refused. I know if she runs the finances, we will always be broke and even be in huge debt as her family will try all ways to suck every penny from us. Husband of vietnamese spouses need to be the stronger and decisive party as most of the vietnamese spouses are not highly educated and thus lack knowledge in most areas and to make things worse, the pressure from their family. treat your viet spouse well and she will treat you even better. Communicate and explain to her your difficulties and discuss on how both of you can work towards a better tomorrow.

never ever let ur wife run the finance. it is what is left of a man's pride in this screwed up feminist singapore world (fucked up woman charter).