[Ryke]

Hi , I have read thru about your problem. I hoped that my opinion can show some lighr to you.

1. Your husband had commited the mistake no matter how he cared for you and the family is rubbish. If he really cared why he commit the mistake.

2. It is true having him physically is useless. Why keep him ? He been with his colleague for 1 year plus than he start to feel tired of lying and hiding. Obviously, he enjoyed lying and hiding. This mean he had delibrate intention of cheating and splitting the family.

3. Having such a husband is already a torture. Do u want to keep him and let your son learn from him. You might think that your child does not know but child might already discovered before your husband confessed.

I will recommend you to end this relationship and channel your strength to bring up ypur child rather than staying with such a unfaithful man . I hope my opinion and advice can help u in a way . God bless u .