HI SIS,
PLEASE HANG ON JUST DONT SIGN ANY PAPER. GIVE YOURSELF & HIM TIME - u posted here becos you wanted an answer on what you should do now.
BUT why now? why are both of you rushing for an so-called solution when both of you cant even think well.
He - acting cool and dont care because he is the one who brought out this, he will lose so-called face if he cannot get a solution fast.
SO? cool him down let him reconsidered what he had proposed again & again, just dont give him answer.
You - I know, is super hard but keep a simple & clear mind - You are not going to make a decision now remember. And ask him & his so-called gf to cool down as well. Such things need time to rethink & rethink, let them live together if they wanted to
BOTH OF THEM WILL SLOWLY MISS THEIR KIDS
If he want to move out, let him. He will rethink of himself and finally cool down. Simply ask him not to rush his decision. Should he come back then forget & forgive, both of you should be mature enough to accept this chapter in life.
Case study:-
My ex-wife dump me out of the house when my business failed - we both did a lot things to hurt each other out of anger. For more than 3 years i hated her, now i dont i somehow pity her.
I remember this 2-3 years after, my two kids grew up and when they are 6 & 7, they asked me why I left mom? I told them your mommy dont want me becos I have no money. Then the next week when i bring them out every sunday, guess what - they both quietly took out their piggy bank and pass to me - and ask me to go back to them.
Tell your hubby, I broke down & cry the whole day -
I TOLD them I wish it did not happened but now sorry i cant.
I worked for them real hard - I owned a multi million worth company now but so. I can buy anything they pointed at now but I missed out all the joy a normal father can get. I owned them.
Me no christian but a god believer - GOD created us to reproduce and a real human duty starts when we started to have kids. Tell him & his gf to rethink, yourself as well - just dont rush to anything now - make sure your decision eventually = no regret
