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Originally Posted by NewMike1304k
............. She has been distant, does not really want to be close to me or near me and deliberatly tries to pretend that I do not exist. But when she needs my help in terms of money or advice, she will again pop up. And once the problem is resolved she disappears again.........................
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Sometimes the reasons why they dun put in too much KC effort can be
1. They know it is relative hard to work it against you and do not want to spend too much opportunity cost on you.
2. They think you are easy, no need to spend too much time and you still provide what they want.
3. They have many choices available, their working place provides a large stream of victims.
If this girl really want to KC you, she won't behave like this. You can even say that your relationship with her is actually over. Like bro cheonging say, KC is a hook on your emotions, you give money willingly becos she pump enough of gfe to you. You are buying gfe, and that's what get people hook on becos they need it to maintain their pride and psychological balance.
So either she is no longer or have never KC you (maybe just becos she is lazy), or you are not susceptible to her KC effort. In both cases, the above title doesn't apply to your situation.