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Old 08-04-2010, 07:22 PM
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[QUOTE=hottip;4752219]First thing to understand is that the girls dun come to Singapore for a holiday. They are here for work. They paid alot of money to come over ... passports, contacts (there seems to always be an agent who is sucking out on them), airfares, housing costs, .... So they have to make quite a bit just to cover costs.
At the first level, they go to JC to hug the boys (even those with bad breath and BO) and make S$20-40 x 2-4 guys a nite. About 80-60% goes to cover cost. So only if they are really hardworking and hug 3-4 clients a night, they actually do not make that much. Maybe not even worth the trip over unless thay find someone like Bro KT as a KC. Sometimes they dun feel well enough to go to work so the day's earnings is shot, even though the costs continue to incur. The big bucks comes when they go 'hotel' with their clients. This is relatively easy money, and although many come with no intentions to do it, sooner or later the temptation gets to be overwhelming when they see their friends flounting the money, and they give in.

[QUOTE=dodgyboi69;4751482]... Do the Girls in Vietnam behave the same way as the one in singapore? And do all the girls(including the non WLs) over there are money sucking vampires? ....[QUOTE]...

So, need to understand that there is a specific profile to begin with the JC girls. Same as the PRC MMs, but the intensity and speed of the PRC MMs efforts is at least 100% more than the Viet girls. You have not met vampires until you get involved with PRC girls - "Wo Ai Ni" but 99% of the time, it is purely business "Qin Ai de"("My Darling").

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Originally Posted by dodgyboi69 View Post
... I frequent HCM. I go there almost every month. Not to cheong but just to chill
relax and unwind from work. I just love and adore HCM. it's so laid back! Few months back, I met a girl at the bar that I frequent. It's a clean joint. I know almost everyone there. She's a SYT. .....QUOTE]

For some reason, I kinda like VN too. I have very quickly observed in country that we can't stereotype the VN girl with the JC profile. I have been fortunate to meet a reasonably wide cross section through different activities. Those in HBT bars may be likened to JC types and I have observed, perhaps even more aggressive. They seemed to be quite hardcore and hardened, even the innocent looking SYTs. Unless you are equal in experience and skill, they will sure have your lunch b4 you can say breakfast.

Then, there are the others: Most whom I have met are very lovely, and hard working and some even work two jobs to help their families. Even those in the Salons. They are sweet and with much more concience than PRC MMs. Although PRC MMs are more ready to be wild and have fun, as long as there is money in the equation. I must say that PRC MMs are very practical about the economics of sex.

As I have said before, if one finds a good girl in VN, and I am sure there are many, I think the experience could be quite satisfying (and also sextifying).
But, above all this, we must be aware of the strong family influence "How much $$ did you bring back today"..

Good luck.
Hi bro.

Thanks for your input man.
Really appreciate it.

Yes, I do agree with you that JC girls and non WL Vietnamese girls can not be put into the same category. It kinds of pisses me off when my people stereotype them as money sucking vampires and look at them as if they're just a piece of meat thus not respecting them as a lady..

I just want to know how to identify between a good seed or a bad seed. J just don want to waste my time and effort into a lady only to find out that she is a bad seed!

Personally, I think she's a gem.
The only thing that bothers me is that she doesn't really reply to my Random "how are you? I miss you" SMS.
She will take about a day to do that.
She'll SMS me like once in every 3 or 4 days.
I was thinking that maybe it's expensive for her to SMS me every night since she only earns like 3 to 4 mil VND a month and still have to support family.

Should I invest time and effort in her?