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Originally Posted by SingViet

in every country, there are both good and bad ladies. Just that many of our fellow singaporean bros got to know their viet gal in pubs, discos and other night spots. These viet gals are normally WL. Not all WL are bad, some are kind hearted and really want to find a good husband to settle down. But often, their family do not let them lead peaceful life, frequently disturbing them and asking them for money and more money. This is also the first why they become WL in the first place, more money earned with little education. Trust is earned, not given. It takes time and lots of incidents to prove one's worth to be trusted. We cannot blame singaporean bros to doubt their viet gf/spouse in the first place, but after time and much incidents, if proven their worth to be trusted, we should trust them. Have good communication with your viet spouse, let them see no need to hide any thing from you, anything can be discussed.

As for bros who have started dating viet WL, don't give trust easily and be careful. But for those who has been with one for a long time and feel your gf can be trusted, give it to them. For those in between, waste no time, if you feel you still cannot trust her after a long time, then let her go. There are pletiful of them out there. We , singaporean man, are still more good natured and often , not smart enough to detect the lies and con job set up. Think with your head, not your dick head. This often helps.

True. If u fish in a goldfish tank, u catch goldfish. Thanks for your insights.

Originally Posted by jackbl

Those who go thru proper learning know how to write well. Those learn from the streets may not know how to write well but speak well.

The same applies to singaporean who write/speak TV.

Agree. My bx's English sms's and emails are very good, but she refused to speak English becos she thinks it is not good enough. She understands me quite well when I speak English, but responses in Mandarin. Our conversations are quite convolutes. Hahaha...