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Originally Posted by naemlo
When u showed her, u r rich. U r rich forever. 1 fine day, u r out of job, she will not understand n still demand for money. 
A lot of bros show their love by giving tons of money. They did not realise what will happen if no money to show their love. |
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Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy
Brother, she sees you as a conduit to transfer material consumer electronics and valuables to her family. I'm sure she loves you but you can't ignore the transfer of goods and money taking place.
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basically the wife is okay, cos she was there with me during my down period. Of course I am not hinting she is a saint, but I can't deny she has her own family interest at heart too.
I do let her know that I am not rich so please be mindful when spending, and she was thrifty and keep track of her spending on own household needs with me.
The sister and mother, I suspect they exploit on the wife care for them.
Yes I do agreed with you, they will always think that we are rich.
So constantly reminding them that we are not, is a part and parcel of marrying a Viet wife.
As least for me.