My MIL started to distribute her `wealth of land' to her sons and daughters. She gave each of them 3 pieces of land in the province, inclusive of a daughter who married a rich vietnamese, but my wife was left out. The reason she gave was that my wife married a foreigner, so not eligible to get a portion of her wealth. Although the sister married a rich vietnamese, she still get because she is in vietnam. Damm.... my wife felt neglected and asked her mum `i feed all in family for over 10 years by working hard in saigon' and the mum said `that's all in the past'. Thank god, i don't need to depend on tis MIL's land to survive. Think about it, she has 2 sons, 4 daughters (inclusive of my wife). She gave out 3 pieces of land to each child (excluding my wife), so its 15 pieces of land and she still have some more for herself. She still dare to tell me she is damm poor. I think i am poorer than her. Lesson learnt, next time if she says she needs this and that, i will tell her to sell her land to get the money as i am a damm poor SIL.