I believe most bro here already tried like me: tried talking properly to wife, but she'll either lose her temper & refuse to talk, or blame you for being a sex-pervert. Then one thing lead to another, before you realized it, a new Cold War has occurred ...
After some times, you realized that, for the greater benefit of the family, especially those with kids, you offer truce but you wife will still insist on your unreserved apologies to her and acknowledging that she was NEVER in the wrong and that all wrongs are due to your sex-pervert behaviors or MCP attitudes ... either way, still no sex 'cos you deserved to be punished, and she's still not in the mood to "reward" you ...
And then what follows? As time goes by, as such cycles repeat again and again, you started to lose your self-esteem, you started to feel worthless, you start to suspect that, afterall, your wife may be right that you are indeed just a low-class sex-pervert, or a useless bum, or a plain goondu, or all of the above. And then, you enter Mid-Life crisis and you seriously begin to doubt yourself and the purpose of your surviving in this world ... and of course, in the worst case scenario, you simply decide to end your own miserable life ... but that's not all. Your surviving wife may still be cursing you for acting like a coward and pervert, and only know how to give/leave her with all the shits of life ... Sad life being a man huh? And who could have believed that it all started from being a simple rejection of lovemaking from your wife?
