[mseveninch]

Hi TS, basically I don't face these problem during my years on oversea work attachment - long & short term. Currently in HK and the works revolve around with so many beauties - both from mainland & HK.

It's boils down on trust and one's individual discipline.

It needs a lot of commitment's on both parties in the love department.

Remembered that love itself does not bring in the butter & bread.

What you think if the OC / GF on bz or attachment oversea for long? Could the man trust that she will not developed intimated feelings to the man in her surrounding?

If need to toa chiak - once must know how to clean it up!!.

I had a working partner ( male ) - reporting to his OC everyday without fail. During working hour - after office & during PH. He was staying with me in the same apartment. Hardly I see him goes out alone for long. The most - he will be back in 45mins and stick on the computer chatting with OC. In the end - the result is - divorce.

Reason - the OC let him wear the green hat!!. So..........either you or she that stray. Both are working and that easily goes wrong. What a pity!