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Originally Posted by lovetorn
i like being around him and to me, i want to see him and just be beside him instead of doing anything sexual with him. i feel that sex is important to keep a relationship going however sex isn't a must always. but he feels differently. we did once conclude that our foreplay is too long as sometimes we get kind of tired after that.
no, i am not over 30. i am 21. as for negative experiences, i did have 1 or 2 with my ex but it isn't anything that is bothering me much. our attraction for each other is a long story but it grew from a normal friendship.
i guess i shouldn't worry too much about it. thanks for the views.
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You SHOULD worry mate, a lot to worry about esp if you're thinking of marriage.
To me it's sounds just like those classic friends-turn-marriedcouple-due-to-obligation thingy. Such relationships did not start with sparks nor physical attraction - I bet you don't feel little deers jumping randomly in your heart when you're with him.
Sexually incompatible is the main issue; beware... since you say he feels differently... it only means we can find him starting those common threads like "Wife/GF don't like sex" and "should I eat out or not?" in SBF... to seek skewed approval from cheongsters here
And you'll start those threads like "Why do men go for pros?"...
You came back to SBF on encountering such issues, so I'm sure he will... too.
SBF is a great place for seeking psychological assistance.