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Originally Posted by Taisho75
My friend lately confine to me that his wife stopped him from having sex with her as they get bulleyes and are now have 2 kids. She dun want another one ever. Most of the times they do the deed without any protection as it's just "spontaneous" activity at home.
Could it be 1 of the reasons why wife dun like/want sex? My friend now ask me to look for FL or paid sex as he cannot stand it anymore. I always thought he was a very "kuai" man, but now it's the other way round.  |
Yuh, on the surface of it, seems like tis 1 good reason why the wifey dun wanna hav sex wif her HB anymore...Some women really wanna stop at 2 children...
..but if 1 look deeper into it, it cld oso be tat it is an excuse to avoid having sex wif her HB (dunno the real reason)..cos if she really loves her HB, she shd know tat her HB still got sexual needs which is her duty as wifey to cater and provide for despite her fears of a 3rd pregnancy i/o just simply refusing him sex altogether...if she is really fearful of having another child as it seems to be so, doesn't she or any 1 of us here not know the way to prevent a pregnancy ?? ..the day we all hit puberty is the day we all became sexually conscious & aware of ourselves and of each other and of SEX itself & its implications... so just need to put on the cap (keep them ready & handy for use whenever needed & oso nowadays there are those thin-layered CD like Okamoto etc which does not reduce the sensation too much n feels just like doing it raw)...so tat the poor HB needn't turn frm "kuai" to "pai kia" & go look for FL instead...doesn't the wifey tink tat tis little 'sacrifice' is worth it to save their precious marriage from breaking up ??...tis just my 2 cents worth